During the past ten years, I have collected more than 10,000 sex surveys. The questions are open ended, so people give real answers instead of numbers on a scale of 1 to 10. An open-ended survey provides a better sense of who we are as sexual beings than “43% of women prefer the missionary position…” or “32% of couples have sex 3 times a week.”
FEMALE AGE 32:
I am totally straight, though I sometimes consider that to be limiting. I’ve had crushes on lesbian women in the past (oddly never straight women) but have never acted on it, and never fantasized about anything beyond kissing. I’m just not interested in vaginas. I had a friend in college who I was always drawn to. I would have dreams of kissing her but never did. She had a boyfriend at the time, and only years later came out. I tend to have crushes on lesbians rather than straight girls, especially the more boyish ones.
I’ve currently been in a relationship with a man for six months. Despite being sexually active for half of my life, this is the best sex I’ve ever had. We see each other three or four times a week and have sex each time.
We do masturbate in front of each other. The look on his face when I touch myself is like a catalyst.
I really like my current partner’s penis. It’s that magical size/shape where it fits just right everywhere. Just hits my G-spot, makes a perfect mouthful, and I think it’s going to be just the right size for anal sex when we start to have it.