A term born from the fusion of “female” and “domination.” It’s where a woman controls or dominates her male partner because it fits the emotional chemistry of both partners. She is sometimes referred to as the mistress, dominatrix, or domme, and he is the slave. Femdom can be as extreme as a full-time mistress/slave arrangement including cock’n’ball torture, umiliation, foot worship, bondage or queening, or it might only involve occasional role-playing.